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The Myth of Rejection

By Stephanie Ciccarelli

July 17, 2007

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Join Voice Over Expert Joan Baker with guest Rudy Gaskins as they discuss "The Myth of Rejection." Discover a new philosophy on how you can regard auditions, react positively to rejection, and embrace each audition as a learning experience and opportunity for growth.

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Joan Baker, Myth of Rejection, The Voice Over Master Immersion Class, Learning Annex, Rudy Gaskins, Push Creative, Secrets of Voiceover Success, Don LaFontaine, NYC.

Links from today's show:

JoanBaker.tv
Push Creative
Secrets of Voiceover Success Book

Transcript from The Myth of Rejection


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Julie-Ann Dean: Welcome to "Voice Over Experts," brought to you by Voices.com, the number one voice over marketplace. "Voice Over Experts" brings you tips, pearls of wisdom, and techniques from top instructors, authors, and performers in the field of voice over.

Join us each week to discover tricks of the trade that will help you to develop your craft and prosper as a career voice over talent. It's never been easier to learn, perform, and succeed from the privacy of your own home and at your own pace. This is truly an education you won't find anywhere else.

This week, Voices.com is pleased to present Joan Baker.

Joan Baker: Hi! I'm Joan Baker, and I'm here to share with you what I call "voice over wisdom." I have a great nugget of wisdom for you today. But first, let me tell you a little about myself. I'm a working voice over actor out of New York City and author of "Secrets of Voice Over Success," which is available in bookstores and on Amazon.com.

I'm also the creator of the "Voice Over Master Immersion Class." I work with small groups on developing voice over technique, audition skills, working with directors, and of course, getting and working with agents.

In fact, part of the training you undergo in the "Voice Over Master Immersion Class" includes one-on-one audition training with a top New York talent agent. Let's face it, once you have the craft down, getting an agent is a crucial step to launching a successful voice over career.

You can learn more about the "Voice Over Master Immersion Class" on my website at www.JoanBaker.tv.

Now, to get back to that voice over wisdom I want to share today. There's a very inspiring point of view on the concept of "rejection." The job of voice over actors depends on auditioning, putting everything on the line in the most personal way.

It's often very difficult to deal with the experience of not getting the job. No matter how many times we audition - and there are always a lot more auditions than jobs - it's a never-ending challenge to keep going in the face of not getting the job. Or, as many people would call it - rejection.

Today, I have a guest who, I believe, will offer some profound insight and comfort, and will give you fuel for fighting the good fight. My guest, Rudy Gaskins, is the President and Executive Creative Director of Push Creative Advertising. It is a New York-based advertising agency specializing in commercials and promos for TV and radio.

Rudy has written and produced thousands of spots. He has directed such notable celebrities as Barbara Walters, Bob Costas, Marv Albert, the late Peter Jennings, Nancy Grace, Dianne Sawyer, and numerous non-celebrity voice talents. Rudy is an Emmy Award-winning producer and is joining me today to talk about the whole notion of rejection.

So, hello, Rudy Gaskins! Welcome and thank you for being my guest.

Rudy Gaskins: Hey, Joan. I'm glad to be here. This is fun for me.

Joan: Good! So, let's have some fun.

Rudy: I'm all yours.

Joan: So, Rudy, you are someone who has not only directed many voice over actors, but who is heavily involved in the process of auditioning and casting for voice over actors. What is your take on the idea of rejection?

Rudy: I can tell you right now, I've got some good news for voice over actors and actors in general.

Joan: Yes!

Rudy: Very good news. Rejection has been a theme of the actor's plight since the beginning of acting. For some actors, the idea of rejection is, absolutely, terrifying. It hinders their freedom to perform at an audition. It keeps them up at nights worrying about what they did wrong, why they weren't liked or accepted.

The idea of rejection means it, actually, diminishes the actor on almost every level. Now, consider that the vast majority of an actor's work is the audition process, and you may do 20 or 30 auditions before you ever book a job. That's a hell of a lot of time spent feeling rejected.

Joan: That's true. But you did say you had good news, right?

Rudy: Absolutely. In my view, it's time to call a spade a spade. The idea of rejection is a myth. There is no single actor who needs to spend one more second on rejection as an aspect of the actor's craft or plight or whatever.

I've worked with the top casting agents, talent agents, and advertising clients on an almost daily basis. I can tell you, I've never once witnessed anyone engaged in a process of rejection. Auditioning and casting is a process of selection.

Joan: OK. I can see where you're going with this. But, help the voice over actors out there or, really, anyone or performer who auditions to embody what you're saying. Clearly, this notion of rejection runs deep for a lot of people, and many actors are completely crippled by it.

Rudy: Yes. Let me break it down for you like a fraction.

Joan: OK, baby.

Rudy: Your role as a voice over talent starts with the marketing and advertising process. That process begins with analyzing the product that will require a radio or TV spot. Whether the product is beer, toothpaste or a car or the voice of a new video game or an animated character, the process of selection is the same.

It goes something like this: First the agency works with the client or advertiser to fully understand the personality of a product. Then we imagine - the key word is imagine - we imagine the personality of that product in the form of a voice or a script. Is it male or female, young or mature, casual, authoritative, in charge, seductive, et cetera?

We imagine the voice that we think best reflects the personality of this product. The voice we believe will best represent and sell the product. But at this point, the voice we are now seeking is a figment of our imaginations. It doesn't really exist until we hear it.

Now, naturally, there's give and take when it comes to making the final selection of a real voice out there in the world. But you can begin to see, as an actor, that what the advertiser is looking for couldn't possibly have anything to do with you, personally. That's number one.

Number two, when we start auditioning voices, we won't know when we have the right voice until we hear it.

Joan: So, in other words, it's like when I go to pick a dress at a store. I don't know what the dress is going to look like before I get there, but I have an idea in my head of what kind of dress I want. Then, when I see it, I know.

Rudy: That's exactly it. You don't go shopping to reject items. You go to select items.

Joan: Exactly.

Rudy: That's exactly what happens with casting and auditioning. We engage in a process of selection - selecting the voice that best meet the criteria of the advertisement.

Now, clearly, one's ability to interpret the script, act the part, perform the emotional values of the words, will play a big part in whether his voice is selected. But the essential quality of the actor's voice is largely out of his control.

Each of us has the voice that we have. That voice either matches the advertiser's idea, or it doesn't. If it does, it will be selected and the audition process is over. The other 50 voice over actors who were not selected, it's simply that; they weren't selected. Rejection never entered into it.

Now, that's now to say that I haven't heard auditions where talent was obviously lacking.

Joan: Right. [laughs]

Rudy: But that's a whole different conversation.

Joan: That's a very good point, too. You have to train and develop your craft before you get on the field with the professional players. If you don't have a certain basic level of professional training, you could be eliminated from the process on that basis, in spite of having great vocal quality.

Rudy: That's right. So, the good news... The good news is that actors can now know deep in their hearts and deep in their minds that it's always about selection and never about rejection.

Joan: I love that. I think that's fabulous. That's great, Rudy. Thank you. You know that really is voice over wisdom and a powerful insight for actors to have.

I'll admit that I, too, have been plagued over the years, beating myself up over and over why I was rejected every time I didn't win an audition or book a job. I'd not only beat myself up, but I'd go into fix mode - trying somehow to repair what I thought was wrong with me.

Once you buy into the notion of rejection, it's very personal and very demoralizing. On the other hand, it's very liberating to realize that it's a myth, a self-imposed punishment that no actor has to take on. So, thank you, again, Rudy, for your wisdom and your generosity.

Rudy: You're very welcome. It was my pleasure to be here.

Joan: Thank you, Rudy. And for all you voice over actors out there and people that are breaking into the field, please visit www.joanbaker.tv for more information on the Voice Over Master "Immersion" Class. That's www.joanbaker.tv. And, also, for information about Rudy Gaskins and Push Creative Advertising, you can log onto... Hit it, Rudy.

Rudy: PushCreative.tv. Ba-domp-bomp.

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Julie-Ann: Thank you for joining us. To learn more about this special guest featured in this Voices.com podcast, visit the Voice Over Experts show notes at podcasts.voices.com/voiceoverexperts. Remember to stay subscribed.

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Your Instructor this week:

Voice Over Expert Joan Baker

Joan BakerJoan Baker is a sound to be reckoned with as one of New York's premier voice-over actors and creator of the wildly successful "Make Millions With Your Voice" through the Learning Annex, the ongoing Immersion Class Workshops and for the first time ever Directing & Working with Voice-over Talent at the Promax/BDA TV Conference 2007 was introduced to producers, writers, TV station managers and VO agents to a sell out crowd. Joan is also the author of "SECRETS OF VOICEOVER SUCCESS", a compelling collection of stories about the top voice-over actors in the industry, including the one and only, Don LaFontaine and many more. All proceeds benefit the Alzheimer's Foundation.

Clients include ESPN, Showtime, Chase Bank, American Express, ABC News and Sports, Lifetime, Lexus, SPIKE TV and Disney (she positively ROARED for the Lion King's national radio campaign!). Other credits include voiceover for HBO Family, WNBC, Nickelodeon, Delta Airlines, Fox 5, NBA Entertainment, NICK at NITE, Imus in the Morning, the ABC Super Sign in Times Square and countless more. Joan's extraordinary talent has generated the spotlight with feature articles in the Hollywood Reporter, Back Stage, Media Week, ADWEEK and Broadcasting & Cable to mention a few.

Enjoyed Joan's episode? Leave a comment with your thoughts!

Related Topics: Don LaFontaine, Learning Annex, Myth of Rejection, NYC, Push Creative, Rudy Gaskins, Secrets of Voiceover Success, The Voice Over Master Immersion Class, voice over coach

Comments


    This episode really needs to be heard by all voice talent, new and experienced! The idea of rejection is something that people are too quick to accept.

    In the regular business world, when a person is unemployed and job seeking, the notion of rejection is very strong, especially if the unemployment came as a result of being fired or downsized. A person's sense of value is already diminished and to perceive a lack of response as rejection only makes it worse.

    Quite often, a job skills training class will prepare you for the task at hand. Keep getting those resumes out there. Network and self promote whenever possible. Your job IS job hunting.

    The same principle applies in the entertainment industry. In Bob Bergen's performance at VOICE, he mentioned that he came to the realization that an actor's job is not acting... it's auditioning. "Audition, audition, audition, JOB, audition...", you get the picture.

    Keep going, keep auditioning, keep self-promoting. Use all the tools at hand and never think that you are not talented. You just may not be the talent the client is looking for.

    Posted by:
    • Carol Mroz - Billing Manager
    • July 20, 2007 6:50 PM

      Thanks Joan and Rudy!

      After awhile we start to tell ourselves that the "rejection" doesn't really bother us anymore, but perceiving it as rejection (versus simply not being selected) will chip away at our attitude eventually.

      Fortunately we have resources like this to help us move on and keep growing and learning!

      Thanks
      Rob Ellis

      Posted by:

        Thanks Joan and Rudy! As a former stage actor, turned talent agent, turned voice actor, I cannot emphasize enough how important it is for actors to grasp this concept. Even as someone who has been on the other side of casting, it's something I still struggle with on occasion. I have to remind myself that all I can do is my best, and everything else is beyond my control.

        Thanks!

        Tammy

        Posted by:

          Thank you very much Joan and Rudy.
          Very insightful on so many levels. I have just done my demo and am waiting for next weeks pay to join voices.com but am keen to do the Voice Over Master "Immersion" Class as well.
          Currently I am able to do 81 different impersonations so hopefully I can finaly use my voice and make a career out of it.

          Thanks again for the words of wisdom.
          All the best
          Stephen Bray (Australia)

          Posted by:
          • Stephen Bray
          • December 18, 2009 10:10 AM

            Excellent Joan, I love your little nuggets of wisdom. You guys are a brilliant team and so cute together.

            Posted by:
            • Sheri Joyner
            • May 26, 2010 11:45 AM

              Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge.

              As a newcomer and someone who is just starting out, It is wonderful to hear such inspiring words and to realize that it is not the idea to take it personally when it comes to rejection in this field of work. It is great for this to be one of my first lessons. A very valuable lesson indeed for anyone.

              Thanks again,
              Mike Y.

              Posted by:
              • Michael Yesaitis
              • January 21, 2011 6:56 PM

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